I know that I've kept you waiting (and, I imagine, the suspense is killing you); but Advent is all about waiting, n'est-ce-pas? So, here you have it, Advent at our house. I'm sorry but I couldn't resist the alliteration in the title... (since changed)
I do love a well-decorated house but I am also a strong opponent of clutter. (My mother once said that if I could hang the furniture on the walls I would). Thus, having never been able to decorate something well without the result being clutter or an overwhelming desire to rip down the garlands after a few days of their hanging, I opt for simplicity; rather, minimalism. The result: an Advent wreath, an Advent calendar, two creches (I'm branching out), two hanging Christmas balls made of pine cones and other Christmas Canadiana, and four stockings hung by the (unused) fireplace with care. Oh, wait, there are also two green bottles that each house a faux stick of some sort of red berry as well as a real sprig of pine. And, the front door has a wreath sided by a bushel basket filled with evergreens and fake berry sticks. Wow, now that I write that down, it sounds like a lot but, trust me, it isn't.

The above shot is a double whammy capturing our Advent calendar in the making and our completed Advent wreath. Congratulate me now: this is the first Advent wreath that has successfully achieved my standards of simplicity and un-annoyingness (word?) and, thus, has a relatively good chance of making it 'til Christmas.

And here is Hannah. She sometimes creates clutter but I am never tempted to clean her up. She does love to craft and was (practically) the only child who helped with the calendar. Jacob, our south paw, cut out houses with right-handed scissors and we applauded him for his effort. Hannah is decorating the Christmas trees with sparkle paints. Ahhh, sparkle paints.

This is not posed. She really is checking out her handiwork. The painting was quite relaxing and a wonderful way to spend time with just Hannah.

Mid-paint.

Here is the first of our creches. This is the soft and unbreakable version. It was a Christmas gift around five years ago from Jacob's godparents. Thank you, Jacob's godparents, without you I am sure that we would not have such a wonderful (and manipulable) creche set. This is also a bonus shot of my green bottle with fake berries and real pine decoration. The icon is always on display as this is our prayer table and the incense cup (thurible? help me out, people) is real; whenever I use it the kids begin to sniff suspiciously and wonder why it smells like church at our house.

The stockings: my mother made these for us when we were only Dave, Elena, Jacob and Hannah. Dave and I no longer have stockings and, if we continue to expand, I will have to bargain for my childhood stocking. They are beautiful, yes? Sitting atop the mantle is the breakable creche set which I inherited from my grandmother. Dear Gran Ruth fashioned this set herself. Today it is particularly poignant as this is the tenth anniversary of her passing. Rest in Peace, Gran.

This is Dave. He is not a decoration. But, he is trying not to smile as this photo is slightly posed. He really was reading from the Liturgy of the Hours as part of our suppertime lighting of the candle; but he thought it strange that I was taking a photo, so he made a valiant effort to remain sober-faced. Not smiling is very difficult for a full-blooded Afelskie; Dave also deserves applause.

And here is the completed Advent calendar. Each day we travel along the gold-ribbon road from one house to the next. The door of each house is actually a pocket into which fits a popsicle stick. Written on the popsicle stick is the name of a set of godparents, grandparents, aunts and uncles, cousins, godchildren and so on for whom we pray on that day. When the day is completed, the popsicle stick is placed back in the pocket with the writing side out. We started this tradition last year and the kids absolutely love it. Yes, there are inevitable fights over the popsicle sticks.
Side note: The I am Third sign is from Madonna House and is meant as a reminder that God is first, my neighbour is second and I am third. Dave regularly jokes that he wants a new sign that says "I am Seventh". Yes, even the dog comes before our dearest Dave. Perhaps the sign should just say "I am (n + 1)th" where n equals the combined number of people and animals in the household other than one's self. Happy Advent.
13 comments:
Great Advent calendar, you are setting traditions that your children will love through the years. Love the simplicity of it.
Advent awesomeness! Love the post and the pictures! I have had the same fabric creche waiting to be sewn since, uh, 1992...guess it's about time I made it. And I love the idea of "I Am (n + 1)th". I have to tell Paul that one. :) Thanks for sharing the joy, as always. And why does Ben want a cow on his head?
Thanks for sharing Elena. I agree, it is best to keep things simple. It is so easy to become overwhelmed with the details and forget the why behind it all. Love to you and your family this Advent season and Happy Feast of the Immaculate Conception (a day late).
Happy Feast of Juan Diego to you, Theresa!
Sue, I have no idea why Ben wants a cow on his head. He likes cows, that's as much as I know.
I am (n + 1)th.
THAT is priceless, Elena.
An awfully amazing alliteration Aunt (A)lena :)
[An American]
Smith, Spelling (is your) strong suit.
Does dave's rubric make me 13.5th?
Also... I am very impressed that you do all this decorating and crafty stuff. In fact, I am so impressed and so humbled because I am so NOT able to do this sort of thing (it is all I can do to keep my kids from killing one another) that I might write an entire post about my ineptitude.
Also, I was going to mention something about the alliteration and how my husband would be impressed, but he beat me to it.
FINALLY (finally!) this is a comment to the post about Benjamin with a cow on his head: we now live much further out into the country, so we drive past lots of cows, horses, deer, llamas (!) and goats every time we go anywhere. Rhett is starting to take all the wildlife for granted, to the point that today he told me from his carseat, "mama, I want tickle corsie. I want tickle cow." Maybe think twice about that, Rhett?
Rebecca, Don't write a post about your ineptitude. It has taken me around 5 years to reach a point of craftiness that can cover the Christmas season. When the twins were your boys' ages, I did not do this stuff - they did not appreciate it and life was more about survival than about the added touches. This stuff comes one thing at a time. Set very low expectations and you will be quite satisfied - as will they. Also, my crafts always appear a few days or even weeks into the liturgical season. (Expectation: complete Advent calendar before the end of Advent. Expectation satisfied.)
I would just like to applaud your Christmas decorations - you have done far more than I have this year. I have 2 wreaths, one inside & one outside. One creche (in Norah's room), our Advent tree, and a stuffed snowman which is currently playing in the exersaucer.
I told myself I couldn't decorate until I purged enough things from my home that I wouldn't just be adding clutter upon clutter. That has not yet happened. :(
Jac, Another reason that I like to keep the decorations simple is so that Advent is Advent and we arrive at Christmas looking forward to 12 days of celebration and not the tearing down of the tree. Too many years I have felt like "Whew, thank God that's over" on the 26th. I don't want to feel that way so I am hoping that the minimalist approach helps with the real celebration of Christmas.
Elena,
I don't know when you'll find this since your post was done in December and now it's July...haha! Happy to have found you here...enjoy your sense of humour and realism re. raising loads of little kids! Hope you're well...
Stephanie
Stephanie, Amazingly every new comment comes immediately to my inbox so I read your 'december' post today in July. I am so glad that you happened by. I must confess that I found your blog via Erin's a few months ago and have been stopping by ever since. I can promise no craftiness here but humour is a bit of a leit motif. Elena
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